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Goals
Jul 27th
There are three kinds of goals: short-term, medium-term and long-term goals.
Short-term goals are those that usually deal with current activities, which we can apply on a daily basis. Such goals can be achieved in a week or less, or two weeks, or possibly months. It should be remembered that just as a building is no stronger than its foundation, our long-term goals can not amount to very much without the achievement of solid short-term goals, we should date the occasion and then add new short-term goals that will build on those that have been completed.
The medium-term goals build on the foundation of the short-term goals. They might deal with just one term of school or the entire school year, or they could even extend for several years. Any time you move a step at a time, you should never allow yourself to become discouraged or overwhelmed. As you complete each step, you will enforce the belief in your ability to grow and succeed. And as your list of completion dates grow, your motivation and desire will increase.
Long-term goals may be related to our dreams of the future. They might cover five years or more. Life is not a static thing. We should never allow a long-term goal to limit us or our course of action.
Far Away from Home
Jul 6th
There is a song called Far Away from Home, if I remember correctly.
So I went to the village of my birth. Since I have not been there for more than 15 years, everything seems unfamiliar to me. And a lot of things changed. So did the local people.
I was standing at the crossing road, trying to find someone I knew. Cars went passingby, and people too, but not my people. I was a little disappointed. As I tried to recall the picture of my house and the river in front, I found myself lost suddenly.
Is this the real place where I lived for almost ten years? I just did not feel anything. Tall buildings and modern roads. No, I told myself, my village had forever gone. It shall live in my memory till the day I leave this world.
The cost of success
May 25th
As a young fellow, I was in a hurry to hit the top. Like a horse wearing blinders, I raced ahead seeing nothing but the finish line. The years flew by. I had fame, financial security and a devoted family. I raced on. I needed more success.
And one day it occurred to me how much I had missed! I thought of friends collected, and then neglected; of my library, full of books with uncut pages; of the first faltering steps of my little girls; of their tears I had not the chance to wipe away; of the bright sayings heard only from their mother over a phone; of the vacations promised to my wife and children. All these resulted from my mere vain pursuit of success!
Ever since that dawning of the truth, I have made it a point to pause now and again to enjoy the scenery. I have come to realize that by going too fast I have missed too much. And how fortunate I am to be aware of the precious truth in time!